Teenage Depression
There has been an increase of reported incidences of
young adults abusing their bodies when they feel depressed. These kids say that if they don’t hurt
themselves, they might “lose it”. Why do
these kids do it? Why do they choose to go
into this self-destructive path?
Self-Mutilation
A lot of doctors are calling self-mutilation the next
anorexia. This habit is getting quite
addictive and is gaining a wide following from large groups of teenagers. It’s also called cutting. It is a means of expressing hidden anger,
agitation, and pain during bouts of depression or when suffering from other
mental health concerns. This is more
common with people who find it hard to express their emotions verbally. They vent out hidden emotions and take their
pain and anger out on themselves by cutting.
Some people call it pain displacement, where people transfer emotional
pain to physical pain, where it’ll last significantly shorter than it would if
it were dwelling inside their heads, by means of cutting or slashing away on
their skin. Kids usually do it in hidden
areas of the body like the upper thighs or the upper arms.
Kids who cut themselves deny being suicidal or even
having such thoughts. When asked why
they cut themselves, they say that they simply hate going to doctors to receive
professional help. These kids just go on
hurting themselves until something unimaginable happens.
Not only does cutting put our youth’s lives in grave
danger, it also warps their sense of reality.
This happens when the wild conscience overrules the more humane side of
the conscience. The wild conscience is
violent and raw, making it uncontrollable.
This part of the psyche makes people torture their own body. Mental health professionals have said that if
you continue to let your wild psyche lead you, your self-mutilating habit may
lead to suicide.
People who hurt themselves need help. They’re not sick, neither are they
insane. It is possible that growing up,
they weren’t able to learn or acquire positive ways of dealing and coping with
different feelings and emotions of a negative nature.
Complications
Certainly, any form of self-destructive behavior will
end up causing complications to a person’s physical and mental health.
·
Cutting contributes to and/or worsens
feelings or shame, guilt, and low self-esteem.
·
Cutting may lead to life threatening
injuries such as massive blood loss from accidental deep cuts, or when one
accidently cuts major blood vessels or arteries.
·
Cutting may lead to accidental or
deliberate suicide. Like what was
mentioned earlier, once a person lets the wild conscience take over, the
intended thoughts of self-torture may turn into thoughts of suicide.
·
Cutting causes permanent scars. You may not mind the scars while you’re in
the moment of cutting, but years down the road, this may add to the shame and
embarrassment as you now show physical evidences of your former self-mutilating
self.
Intervention
It is never too late to start learning positive coping
mechanism. Engaging in a counseling
session with a trusted and trained professional will help introduce and slowly
instill less harmful ways of dealing with negative emotions and stress. During therapy, deep-rooted concerns that
could’ve caused the self-destructive behavior are addressed. Medications are unlikely to be the answer to
stop a child’s cutting habits. However,
the doctor might prescribe anti-depressants or other psychiatric medications to
improve the depression. For severe
cases, psychiatric hospitalization may be required. Chronic cutters need to be put in a safe
environment and receive more intensive treatment until the crisis is over.
Kids who have this problem need understanding and
support from the people around them.
Judging them for their current actions won’t help them improve or quit
the habit. This will only make kids feel
more hurt and depressed.
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